QUOTE(gfp @ Aug 18 2006, 07:38 PM)

Hi.. me again!
First off I have to agree 100% with eleep.
but on top of this you should consider depression, its very common with gluten and gluten withdrawal especially.
If you want to know why ask and I'll explain. Indeed I can provide links and explanations to any of this but my posts tend to be long enough as it is.
Also you just moved and changed your life, got married (obviously recently) etc. etc.
All of these are extremely stressful changes... and it doesn't mean she's depressed because you moved or married or whatever but that the body can respond by depression to these triggers. If you add the gluten withdrawal then heck...
Seriously, just search for depression on the forum, its incredibly common in celiacs and withdrawal actually makes it worse.
Self help can include natural anti-depressants (St johns wort or a cocktail I get in France for abut €3 for 180 but also prescribable under the French system)
Exersize.... yeah, i know how does someone lying in bed exersize. The answer is they need someone to drag them out. Lots of Fresh air ... and some sun can work wonders (do you sail?) ... and this links with the technical reason behind the depession.
Sublingual B6 and B12.... are also recommended.
and the biggest thing in all sleep disorders is getting up at the same time everyday regardless. Can be a killer to start but then after 2-3 days it resets the clock.... if the sleep disorder is depression induced then exersize, fresh air and getting out are needed so when you get home, open a bottle of wine and a meal or whatever you will drop off. (not necassarily what newlyweds want

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No coffee after mid day.... seriously... one of the easiest fixes. This is even more true for women who process caffine much more slowly than men AND much much more slowly if pregnant.
(again of you don't believe me say so ... I don't mind)
Lots of reasons for this... but I have my own question.
Does she ever get REALLY REALLY cold.
i have had episodes a few times when I have been chilling out with my girlfriend and felt a slight chill. I go and try and close a windows, put on a shirt etc. and a slight chill goes directly into incipient hypothermia .. I mean shaking uncontrollably and crawling under a duvet (comforter for our american friends) with my girlfriend doesn't even help for 30 mins.
Trust me bub, you're making sense.
She had depression a lot during her teens, although that was mostly situational and mostly picked up when we moved. I did figure there would be some depression involved when she was diagnosed. Kinda feel like a bad partenr for admitting that fact that I go to peices when she's depressed.
Caffeine isn't an issue. I can't even go near it, so neitherof us drink it. She was a hyperactive kid despite being ill a lot, so she's always avoided caffeine/food colourings/etc anyhow.
She reacted badly to the anitdepressants when she tried them. They actually made her worse, and when they changed the pills it was like watching a junkie go through withdrawl. I actually called an ambulance for her twice when she was coming off the pills at various times. We're trying the fresh air/frsh fruit way of doing things. We're right on dartmoor, so there have been plenty of long walks.
And in answer to your question about how someone lying around in bed gets their excersise? Wouldn't you like to know?
You're spot on about the cold thing. She'd be wearing fifteen laters, have the heating right up and be cuddled up to a radiator wrapped in a quilt and still cry that she was cold. What the hell is with that? Cake was what set that off. Bread wasn't so bad, but anything sugary- cake, doughnuts, cookies, really set her off.