I am new, and I post a message but it not has shown up yet. It has been a couple of hours. Please let me know what I need to do correctly.

Hey BensMom,

I am glad that you have joined us. Sometime on the week end it is slowcity around here. The thread are recycled at a certain post point. You can find you post on the catogory that you posted it under....ie. "prediagnosis, post, coping, parents...threads". It is still there. You did nothing wrong.

I will try to find it. Althought, not a mom of young children, there are many here that are.