QUOTE (Cherry Tart @ Oct 30 2007, 12:09 PM)

Ladies, thank you all for your info/suggestions. I'm just so frustrated - I feel so helpless

I can't take clomed (sp?) because I have problems w/ cysts. I appears that I'm ovulating and that my levels are good. My husband has been tested and has an exceptionally high count. I guess I was hoping that it would just happen the "old fashioned" way.....just having fun and not thinking about it. I really didn't want to be one of those gals who has to consume themselves with charts, temperatures, and positioning, but I guess it has come to that....oh well! I guess its all worth it in the end, isn't it?
Thanks again girls - I feel much better now that I have some new info to explore!

I wouldn't look at it as being "consumed" with charts, temps, etc. (positioning has little to do with it though!) I found charting was very empowering. For once I
really understood what was going on with my cycles and body!
I charted for a long time (used it as birth control after going off the pill) before I chose to become pregnant. I don't chart now. I've learned to read my cycles quite well...and no longer am concerned about pregnancy prevention.
Do check out the book...you may find that it
can happen the "old fashioned way"...or if not, then maybe you'll get a clearer picture of what is going on.
Michelle