Let me start by giving you some background. I have had stomach issues always and was given the diagnosis of IBS at 18 ( I am 49 still lol). I had triplets a bit over 12 years ago and was diagnosed with fibromyalgia when they were 5. After a year of the fibromyalgia diagnosis I did an elimination diet and discovered that I have problems when ever I ate wheat, barley, rye and legumes. I stopped eating those foods (or so I thought). I was then diagnosed with GERD and last august with depression.
I felt much better when I eliminated those foods from my diet, my fibromyalgia pain and fatigue reduced by about 50%. I lost 50 lbs without trying. I was still just thinking intolerance so occasionally I would still have issues (I tend to have problems eliminating rather than diarrhea, bloating and awful vile gas). I have a friend with celiac who suggested that I should be tested for it. I have had the blood test twice (the first time I hadn't had any gluten for several years so the second time I did a gluten load) both times the test came back negative. My symptoms came back full force with the gluten loading and were only partially relieved when I eliminated gluten again. My guess is that with the second reintroduction to gluten my body has become even more sensitized to it.
My doctor does believe that I have celiac but due to the fact that I am IgA Deficient (diagnoses 30 years ago) the blood test is not useful for me. He is sending me to a GI specialist (this is the same doctor that performed my colonoscopy, at my request as my grandmother died of colon cancer) to discuss the necessity of having the biopsy or not based on my symptomology.
I really need to organize my kitchen better. I have not had gluten, knowingly, for a few months now but because I am still suffering after a few months (remember I only gluten loaded for 2 weeks and had been off gluten for years before that ) so I'm thinking that I must be having cross contamination issues. I have eliminated dairy (I noticed that I couldn't tolerate it after gluten loading), I switched to decaf. soy lattes but have found them to be a problem as well so I guess soy is out. I need to buy a toaster for myself but my kitchen is sooooo small and as far as we know I'm the only celiac in my home (I will be discussing the necessity of testing the kids but first I want to get their IgA results back). I have designated cutting boards and condiments.
My question: For those of you with celiac but living with non celiacs how do you organize your kitchens? Mine is small with not too much kitchen space (we live in a small 4 bedroom house built in the 1920s). I have all the flours and mix my own mixes and they are stored in a separate fridge down stairs but with feeling so sick still I'm grasping at straws here and looking for good suggestions for avoiding cross contamination. I've been so sick lately, migraines, muscle pain, GI distress, spontaneous blood vessels bursting in my fingers and dibilitating fatigue which has made me feel very overwhelmed with anything more than routine stuff (soccer practices/games, basketball practices/games, homework, dinners etc...)

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