A little history - my 15 month DD had not gained any weight at her 1 yr appt from her 6 month - not even an ounce. She eats very well so I was shocked. She started to look so tiny and people would comment to me about how small she looked. She had been in the 50th percentile for weight and went down to the 5th. Because she was eating - and I still breastfeed her - It didn't really hit me until I looked at earlier videos and pictures.
I don't eat many grains myself, so her diet didn't really have many. Oatmeal occassionally. We went to visit in-laws for the holidays and the diarrhea started there after a few days. Looking back, she did eat much more grain than at home. It wasn't so much diarrhea as just diapers full of undigested food if that makes sense. It continued for a while. 4 or 5 a day. She would have red-rimmed eyes and even after sleeping 14 - 16 hours a day, she would be tired. I took her to the doctor and they ran a test on her stool and said it wasn't viral. I thought it might be dairy. I got rid of the dairy and that is when she started getting more grain products - crackers, etc. It got worse. I do give her dairy again - yogurt and cheese. I did stop the grains and it got a little better, but I hadn't known how pervasive gluten is in our foods. So while the diarrhea got better sometimes, it would come back. While all this went on, I pulled back from solids a bit (except veggies and fruits) and breastfed her more. She had only been nursing 4 times a day but I started offering it more often and she did start gaining weight again.
She doesn't vomit from grains and she doesn't complain of stomach issues. She sleeps fine and the tired look is gone from her most of the time. But I do notice that gluten containing products cause the undigested food diapers and red eyes - within 24 hours. As I write this, I am realizing that she does get a bit clingy as well.
So here are my questions - do we go gluten free (myself included since we are breastfeeding still) and see what happens? I can't imagine my 6 yr old and husband wanting to do this as well.... It is such a huge undertaking and reading the boards, it seems that she doesn't have the intense reactions that many of you have. Of course I want her to be healthy and will do what is necessary, but I am not convinced that it is gluten and since there is no reliable test for a child her age, I am at a loss at what to do next.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
